我很喜歡玩wakeboard,因為wakeboard是一種很有趣的運動.
而且wakeboard可以比到人很多啟示.
對於自己來說wakeboard給我最大的啟發就是學習放手.
因為玩wakeboard第一樣要學習的不是起水,而是學習放手.
當快艇拉住你去做一些動作,(包括起水)而你又做不到的話就一定要放手.因為如果你死拉住個handle不肯放手的話,只會拉傷自己.
這是wakeboard對我的啟示.在我們我生活上不只是wakeboard.很多身邊的事情上都要學習放手,由其是在感情上,當這個人不喜歡自己就要放手.就算怎樣死纏難打.到最後受傷的只會是自己.
與其樣他拉傷自己,不如放手,樣自己浮在水中,因為那隻快艇很快便會過來接走你.
tonight i went to my friend bday party, and i knew a guy there, he is the kind i like. is not becoz he is handsome, is becoz he have a very big stomach. seem so funny, but that is true, i like a guy have big stomach. haha
but most of the guy they dont like they have a big stomach and they will try to do exercise to made it become six piece of the muscle. but honestly of myself i dont really like six piece muscle instead of the big stomach. and actually the mind of the guy just like the gal. cuzz most of the gal they like SLIM. they feel slim = good looking. and the most important thing is they feel all the guy like slim gal. but on the other hand most of the guy they dont really like gal are 2 slim.
we have to know y the guy like six piece of the muscle? and the gal like slim? well, i think is 2 much of the advertisement. it really like a kind of the 洗腦, to made all the guy feel six piece of the muscle= good looking, slim= good looking, honestly i dont think so, since i really feel even you are good looking, but your personality is not good that is meaningless, (maybe that is a good excuse to myself of not to lose weight, haha)
世界上有很多人正在尋找他們的出路,在工作上,愛情上,金錢上,但是大多數也找不到,不是因為他們沒有努力去做,而是他們做不到,因為他們大多數都有共同的一様想法,'我是世界上最不幸的人''可以做的我已經做過''I HAVE NO CHOICE'....但是前面真的是那様嗎?世界末日?還是他們把自己推進死角,
honestly b4 i was the 1 of them, but now i turn back and watch. i saw i was a sucker in b4, cuzz everything we can have choice, we have the way to go, but just see do you wanna choice or go. 'The door is always open to you, you just need to walk and go.'
男人總是喜歡欺騙女人,因為每個男人都總會有無數的理由,理論,藉口,去欺騙他的女人,
例如:'我真的不愛她,我的心只有你''跟她一起只是為了孩子''我會和她離婚/分手,之後便
和你一起', 有時再差的,便會是失縱,之後'是但'說一些無數藉口.......
而這個時候女人就像渴了迷魂藥一様,什麼都相信
這個時候是男人真的欺騙女人?還是女人自己欺騙自己?
又過了一段時間,女人知道男人沒法做到之前的諾言,
而女人知道了真相後也有無數的理由,理論,藉口去幫這個男人洗脫罪名,
例如:'他一定有他的原因''工作太忘''他不能放棄他的小孩'..........................
又是一連串無數的藉口
自己作為女人也覺得'唔好意思'
but on the other hand, 女人太聰明都不是好事
因為當男人有任何舉動,女人都知道他在想什麼,他會做什麼時
自己不開心時,男人也會不高興,
所以做女人真難,做個好女人重難
唉........................
about 6 week on sick leave, have nothing to do at all the time. and i was alwlays think im very much of solitude. i feel solitude is difference with alone or lonely. lonely is only mean bored. and alone is only mean only 1 of you. but solitude is mean no one care of you at the world.
very much unhappy. when the time i was in hospital. some of my workmate come to visit me. but i dont think they are really willing to come. is only becoz my post in office. how much meaningless im alive.
if possible.............
nothing is possible.............
have no possible...........
this is the 1st time i write a blog
seems many thing want to write but during the time i have to type. my brain have nothing
i still remember my bday wish in this year is ' can do something i want to do, i wish to do and i willing to do' how was a big think cuzz im not able to do everything around to me, seem so poor, but i understand at the world many ppl like me, everything were not able to control, im only the 1 of them....
becoz of the work i know many difference ppl, but i have no friend. sometime i really think did i need friend? and i find out the ans. is yeap. i need friend but i have no. cuzz no one can trust around to me. not even 1.
so i really think im nothing. im no one.
